In Memoriam: MB Mohammed
By Muhammad Yakubu Abare
In the quiet corners of our shared memories, a vibrant, so enduring soul exists that even the passage of time cannot diminish its brilliance. MB Mohammed is a name that resonates with the echoes of laughter, shared dreams, and the unspoken bond of a friendship that weathered the storms of life. It is with a heavy heart that we bid farewell to a companion, a confidant, and a cherished friend who, after a valiant three-decade struggle, succumbed to the relentless grip of sickle cell anaemia on the 1st of November, 2023.
Our journey together began in the embrace of a shared childhood, where our families were not just neighbours but kindred spirits united by the thread of fate. From when our parents toiled side by side in the pursuit of livelihoods to their eventual retirements and relocations, MB and I traversed the meandering paths of life hand in hand. An enthusiastic learner, he possessed an insatiable thirst for knowledge, which propelled him to pursue Economics at the University of Maiduguri, from which he emerged with commendable distinction.
In the journey of life together, MB faced challenges that would have deterred a less resilient spirit. Living with sickle cell anaemia, he confronted each hurdle with courage that spoke volumes of his determination. His path, marked by periodic bouts of illness, bore witness to a remarkable strength that defied the limitations of his physical condition. Beyond the confines of health struggles, MB was not only a scholar but also a tech virtuoso. His proficiency in programming and computer skills illuminated a path of endless possibilities.
Before venturing into the humanitarian sector, MB donned the hat of a dedicated teacher at a private school. Here, he harnessed his programming prowess for the greater good, developing software solutions for school management, including salary vouchers, results computation, and attendance tracking – all offered selflessly, free of charge. His passion for education extended beyond the classroom as he initiated science-based student clubs, fostering a love for learning.
During his one-year service in the NYSC, MB’s altruism shone brightly. Despite battling his health challenges, he engaged in community services, particularly in education. His efforts included distributing free books to school libraries, which garnered him well-deserved awards. This selfless dedication defined his remarkable life, turning adversity into opportunities for others. Though he grappled with sickle cell, his existence was a testament to the extraordinary resilience that marked his every endeavour.
Our closeness transcended mere friendship; it was a kinship forged in the crucible of shared aspirations and mutual support. Our mothers often remarked on the uncanny synchronicity of our thoughts as though our minds danced to the same rhythm. As we embarked on our respective careers, we found solace in exchanging our companionship. CV reviews, career advice, and shared triumphs became the threads weaving the tapestry of our intertwined professional lives.
In a moment of need, MB opened his doors and heart, welcoming me into his rented apartment for an entire year when I embarked on the employment journey. His generosity and unwavering support were a testament to the depth of our connection. He stood as a pillar of strength, a beacon of guidance whenever the tides of life grew tumultuous. It is with a profound sense of disbelief and grief that I learned of his passing, a mere four days after our last communication on the 27th of November via WhatsApp.
The news of his departure on the 1st of November shook the foundations of my world, leaving a void that words struggle to fill. Yet, in this time of sorrow, I find peace in the memories we created, the shared laughter, and the indomitable spirit that defined MB Mohammed. As we mourn his physical absence, let our hearts be united in prayers for the eternal peace and tranquillity of his soul. In these days of grief, we turn our hearts heavenward, seeking solace in the divine and entrusting the departed soul to the mercy of Allah.
“Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji’un” – Surely, we belong to Allah, and to Him shall we return. May MB’s soul find tranquillity in the divine embrace, and may his memory continue to illuminate our paths as we navigate the journey of life.
Muhammad Yakubu Abare wrote via muhammadyakubuabare@gmail.com.









