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Crying for all the men struggling and suffering in silence

By Rabi Ummi Umar

Men are the foundation and cornerstone of every nation and each household. As ordained by Almighty God, man was created and endowed with strength and leadership qualities. According to divine design, man is destined to be the head of the household, with woman as his partner and helpmate, working together in harmony and mutual respect.

Just like women, men are human beings with emotions and vulnerabilities, despite being socialized to project strength and resilience. Society’s expectations often dictate their behavior, leaving them little choice but to conform to traditional masculine norms.

It is quite a relief to see men being recognized and appreciated, which is precisely why International Men’s Day is observed annually on November 19. This global celebration acknowledges men’s invaluable contributions to society while addressing their distinct challenges. The 2024 theme, Men’s Health Champions, aptly emphasizes enhancing men’s overall well-being and promoting healthy lifestyles.

Growing up, I would often watch my dad sit outside after dinner and Isha prayer— the last prayer of the day for Muslims — alone in contemplation. Whenever we asked him why, he would smile and say he was just receiving some “fresh air,” and we would respectfully leave him be.

At the time, I thought he truly was just savoring the evening breeze. But growing older brought the realization that it was his way of recollecting his thoughts and recharging after a long, hectic day of working tirelessly to provide for us. It was his way of coping with unrelenting stress and finding solace, yet we could never quite grasp the depth of his emotions.

Traditionally, men are expected to provide for their loved ones, including their partners, children, and themselves. With numerous responsibilities bestowed upon them by societal norms, they have largely embraced this role and its accompanying challenges without complaint.

Society has consistently placed high expectations on men, often disregarding their mental and emotional well-being. This has resulted in immense pressure on them, with little consideration for their inner struggles.

If they fail to pay children’s school fees on time, their homes become disastrous and uninhabitable due to constant nagging. If they miss rent payments, they are deemed irresponsible. And if they cannot provide for their wives’ glittering desires, they are labeled bad husbands. So, how can we reasonably expect them to maintain their sanity?

Even in relationships, if a man does not call on time, he is deemed out of love. If he does not send money, he is not “the one.” And if he fails to meet friends’ and family’s standards, the advice is to “find someone else.”

Since men are less likely than women to seek help for mental health symptoms, it is not surprising that suicide rates for men are four times higher than for women. This statistic underscores the fact that depression may be the most common mental illness in men.

While these expectations can be valid, they are often unfair. If the tables were turned, society and women would struggle to handle half of what is expected of men. However, this piece is not about shifting responsibilities; it is about shedding light on and raising awareness about men’s mental health.

Men are humans too, with feelings and emotions. The issues we often dismiss as normal can run deeper than they appear, potentially affecting their mental health and leading to depression. We rarely recognize this because men seldom fully express themselves, and we rarely create a safe space for them to open up.

Much like women, men are also victims of sexual assault, harassment, abuse, and other forms of exploitation. Yet how many of these cases come to light? When they do, how do we respond? How often do we show appreciation for the men in our lives—our fathers, sons, brothers, friends, and partners?

Men’s mental and overall health is crucial and must not be overlooked. We should strive to create a society where everyone, regardless of gender, feels comfortable and safe, fostering a better environment for all.

Let us imbibe the habit of celebrating men who break barriers and make a difference in the world—those who provide for their loved ones, bring joy, and positively impact our lives. To every man out there, you are loved, seen, strong, and most importantly, enough.

Let us celebrate the men who struggle in silence. To men out there, we see your struggles, and we are committed to making the world a better place for you and all of us.

Rabi Ummi Umar is a student of Al-Hikmah University and can be reached via: rabiumar058@gmail.com

Some lawmakers yet to grasp President Tinubu’s tax reforms – Sen. Barau

By Uzair Adam

Following Wednesday’s Senate session, experts were invited to explain President Bola Tinubu’s proposed tax reforms. Deputy Senate President Barau Jibrin addressed concerns raised by lawmakers and the public about the initiative.

In an interview with the BBC, Barau explained that the President’s new tax policies aim to strengthen Nigeria’s economy but noted their complexity necessitated expert input.  

“This is why we invited those who developed the policies on behalf of Mr. President,” Barau said, emphasizing the importance of lawmakers fully understanding the reforms.

The Senate Finance Committee, chaired by Senator Sani Musa, recommended bringing in experts to clarify the proposals, as many legislators and citizens were unclear on their details.  

“Some of these experts had previously been invited by state governors and the House of Representatives for similar explanations. We saw it as a necessary step,” he added.  

Barau highlighted the significance of televising the session, saying, “Transparency was key, which is why we ensured the session was broadcast live.” 

However, he acknowledged that some senators claimed they were unaware of the meeting despite official notifications.  

He also clarified that the second reading of the tax reforms does not signify their final approval.  

“This is just the beginning of the process. The Finance Committee will now review the policies in detail, consult with tax experts, and present a comprehensive report. 

“We urge stakeholders, including youth and women, to continue documenting their concerns,” Barau said.  

He emphasized the importance of thorough review and consultation to avoid unintended consequences, adding, “No leader intends to harm their people, but we must fully understand the policies’ implications.”

Addressing recent political tensions, Barau referred to an incident in Kano where rice was seized, leading to hasty accusations.  

“Such actions undermine due process. Jumping to conclusions without proper investigation does not help our country,” he warned.  

Barau also called for unity and respectful discourse in the Senate, urging collaboration across party lines.  

“Resorting to insults and accusations contradicts our cultural and religious values. Even God does not condone such behavior,” he said.

As the Senate continues its review, Barau urged patience and constructive engagement from all stakeholders to ensure the reforms serve the best interests of Nigerians.

Australia to enforce minimum age limit for social media use

By Uzair Adam

Australian Prime Minister Anthony Albanese announced on Thursday a proposed law that would bar children under 16 from accessing social media platforms.

Joined by Communications Minister Michelle Rowland, Albanese pledged to implement a 16-year minimum age restriction, citing the need to curb social media’s potential harm to young users.

The proposed legislation aims to place the burden of enforcement on social media companies, holding them accountable if they fail to restrict minors’ access.

However, it would not impose penalties on children or their parents if they manage to circumvent the rules.

“This is a significant concern, as we are well aware of the social harm that these platforms can cause. It’s time to step in and protect our kids,” Albanese said at a press briefing in Canberra.

The law, expected to take effect a year after parliamentary approval, would be enforced by the government’s Safety Commissioner.

Albanese added that while some exemptions might be considered, the intent is to ensure that the legislation achieves its protective goals.

The proposal will be discussed with state leaders at a meeting on Friday.

The federal budget for 2024-25 has also allocated funds for a trial of age-verification technology to determine the most effective means of enforcing the limit.

The opposition Coalition, which proposed a similar age restriction earlier in the year, has indicated its support for the measure, giving Albanese’s Labor Party the votes needed to pass it through parliament.

Blackout: President Tinubu directs speedy restoration of electricity in North

By Abdullahi Mukhtar Algasgaini

President Bola Ahmed Tinubu has expressed concern over the blackout in the northern region of Nigeria in the last week.

He is now leading efforts to end the disruption that has paralysed social and economic activities, summoning the Minister of Power, Adebayo Adelabu, and the National Security Adviser, Nuhu Ribadu.

The President has directed the Minister of Power and relevant agencies to speed up the pace of work to restore electricity to all the affected states in the North.

President Tinubu is saddened by the reports of vandalism and wilful destruction of power infrastructure and other public assets that caused the unfortunate blackout.

In a meeting with the Minister of Power, Mr Adebayo Adelabu, who briefed on efforts made by the Transmission Company of Nigeria to repair the damaged Shiroro-Kaduna transmission lines, the President directed a long-term solution to the problem.

President Tinubu charged TCN engineers not to relent in bringing immediate relief to the people who need electricity to sustain their social and economic activities.

To ensure that restoration work continues unhindered, President Tinubu also directed the National Security Adviser, Mallam Nuhu Ribadu, to work with the Army and Air Force to deploy adequate security personnel, including aerial cover, to protect the engineers who are fixing the damaged transmission line.

President Tinubu implores traditional rulers, community leaders, and other leaders of thought to work with security agencies to protect public assets and infrastructure.

He said the government will no longer condone deliberate sabotage and destruction of public utilities.

University unions embark on indefinite strike over withheld salaries

By Uzair Adam

The Joint Action Committee (JAC) representing the Non-Academic Staff Union of Educational and Associated Institutions (NASU) and the Senior Staff Association of Nigerian Universities (SSANU) has directed members to initiate an indefinite strike starting Monday, following the non-payment of four months’ withheld salaries.

The strike, initially scheduled for October 23, was postponed to Sunday night, October 27, 2024, to align with the NASU branches’ Trade Group Council meeting.

A circular signed by NASU General Secretary Prince Peters Adeyemi and SSANU President Comrade Mohammed Ibrahim detailed this timing adjustment for unified coordination among union members.

Despite President Bola Tinubu’s approval of 50% payment for the withheld salaries, JAC expressed frustration with the alleged inaction from the Minister of Finance, questioning the government’s commitment to resolving the issue.

The union stated that multiple requests for resolution have gone unanswered, prompting their decision to proceed with the strike.

JAC reiterated its appreciation for the members’ loyalty and assured them of continued efforts to achieve a satisfactory outcome.

ASSOMEG condoles Gov. Yusuf’s aide over son’s passing

By Uzair Adam

The Association of Online Media Guild (ASSOMEG) has extended its heartfelt condolences to Malam Sanusi Bature, the Director General of Media and Publicity to the Kano State Governor, Abba Kabir Yusuf, following the passing of his son, Abubakar Sadiq, who died on Thursday at age 15.

In a statement jointly issued by ASSOMEG’s Chairman, Abdullateef Abubakar Jos, and Secretary, Abbas Yushau Yusuf, on Friday, the association shared that Sadiq passed away in an Indian hospital after a successful bone marrow surgery.

“This tragic loss resonates within the media community, and we join in the sorrow and grief that Mr. Bature and his family are facing,” the statement said.

The message emphasized that Malam Sanusi Bature is a respected ally within the media sector and has offered his support and partnership over the years.

ASSOMEG conveyed its solidarity, expressing thoughts and prayers for Bature and his loved ones during this trying time.

“We pray for the strength to bear this profound loss and trust that Almighty Allah (SWT) will provide solace and peace to his family,” the statement added.

UNICEF raises alarm on violence against children in Nigeria

By Uzair Adam

The United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) has expressed concern over the persistent level of violence against children in Nigeria, citing new studies that indicate the situation remains alarming.

UNICEF’s Child Protection Manager in Nigeria, Mona Aika, made this known during the opening of a two-day forum on ending violence against children, held in Abuja on Monday.

She revealed that about 6 out of 10 children in Nigeria experience physical, sexual, or emotional violence before the age of 18, while only 5 percent of reported cases receive the necessary support and services.

Aika emphasized that Nigeria is making efforts to address the issue through the INSPIRE framework, which includes enforcing laws, eliminating harmful social norms like gender discrimination, female genital mutilation, and child marriage, and creating safer environments for children.

The Solicitor-General of the Federation, Beatrice Jeddy-Agba, echoed these sentiments, stressing that a comprehensive approach involving all stakeholders is necessary to combat violence against children.

She reiterated the Ministry of Justice’s commitment to prosecuting cases of violence, including crimes against girls who were affected by Boko Haram.

Leticia Ayoola-Daniels, Director of the Administration of Criminal Justice and Reform Department, described the forum as a preparatory step ahead of the global summit in Bogota, Colombia.

She highlighted the determination to shift from merely discussing the issue to taking concrete actions to protect children.

The stakeholders’ forum marks another step in Nigeria’s ongoing efforts to confront and reduce violence against its children.

“We are unlawfully detained by the IG under the directives of Matawalle” – a father’s cry

By Mukhtar Ibrahim

Alhaji Umaru Hadejia, a septuagenarian, cries out and looks for justice, after he had been unlawfully detained together with his 5 children by the state security forces.

According to Umaru, his arrest was allegedly orchestrated by the current state minister of defense, Matawalle, who ordered for their arrest without them commiting any offence.

In a letter obtained by TDR, Umaru Hadeja lamented and explained that; he, together with his five sons, were detained unlawfully by the IG of police.

“I, along with my five children (Bashir, Bello, Mahmud, Abubakar and Ahmad) have been
unlawfully detained without any warrant of arrest and without any charge levied against us at the Intelligence Response Team (IRT) unit in Abuja by the Inspector General of Police under the directive of the Minister of State (Defence) Bello Matawalle since yesterday 30th September, 2024 at around 6pm.”, He said.

He further said “The previously spurious allegations against Bashir by the Inspector General of Police and
the Minister of State (Defence) Bello Matawalle, which were widely circulated in the social media were found to be false because the Police investigations themselves did not find any cause to charge Bashir to court. Up to now, the Police could not charge Bashir on any of those allegations.”

“Despite this, the Police could not release Bashir, which then forced us to go to court to secure his release and enforcement of his fundamental human rights. Upon which the court granted bail and ordered for his release on the 5th of September 2024. Still, the Police refused to release Bashir until the 25th September 2024.”

“However, I and my above-named children are still being illegally detained by the Inspector General of Police under the directive of the Minister of Defence (State) Bello Matawalle without warrant of arrest and any charge against us.
I fear for our lives and safety.”

Initially, it was a son of Alhaji Umaru, named Bashir, who was arrested by officers from the Police Force Intelligence Department-Intelligence Response Team (FID-IRT) and Force Intelligence Department-Special Tactical Squad (FID-STS), but later, the father and other family members were also arrested when they attempted to seek for his release.

Federal prosecutors are accusing Bashir (the son) of “treason, subversion against the state” and playing a role in the sponsorship of the nationwide hunger protests in the first week of August.

Iran warns of stronger retaliation if Israel responds to missile attack

By Uzair Adam

Iran’s President Masoud Pezeshkian affirmed on Wednesday that while Iran is not seeking war, it will deliver a stronger response if Israel retaliates for the recent missile attack.

Speaking alongside Qatar’s Emir, Sheikh Tamim bin Hamad Al-Thani, in Doha, Pezeshkian emphasized that Israel is pushing the region into conflict.

“We are not looking for war, but if Israel reacts, we will respond even more forcefully,” Pezeshkian stated, holding Israel accountable for escalating tensions.

The remarks follow Iran’s launch of about 200 missiles, including hypersonic weapons, towards Israel.

Although Israel intercepted most of the missiles, some damage was reported, including a school building, and two civilians sustained minor injuries from shrapnel.

Israeli military sources confirmed that some missiles landed near air force bases without causing significant damage.

Pezeshkian criticized Israel’s intentions, accusing it of creating instability in the region and called on the US and European nations to pressure Israel to halt its actions.

Meanwhile, Qatar’s Emir also condemned Israeli strikes on Lebanon and Gaza, warning that the region was being pushed to the brink of disaster.

Qatar remains committed to brokering a ceasefire between Israel and Hamas.

I didn’t steal a kobo as Kaduna governor—Erufa’i 

By Abdullahi Mukhtar Algasgaini 

The immediate past governor of Kaduna State, Nasir El-Rufai, has insisted that he did not embezzle public funds while in office, saying he is ready to swear with the Qur’an. 

The former governor said he joined politics solely to serve the people, not to seek money or steal public funds. El-Rufai made this statement during a Hausa program aired on Freedom Radio station in Kaduna on Tuesday morning. 

He stressed that he was content with what he had even before becoming governor. Recall that the Kaduna State Assembly indicted El-Rufai’s administration for allegedly misappropriating over N423 billion during his eight-year tenure. 

However, the ex-governor and his allies have denied the allegations, claiming they are being witch-hunted by the Assembly and the state government. 

El-Rufai added that he is prepared to swear on the Quran whenever former state governors and current leaders do the same to affirm they never misappropriated public funds. 

He said, “I was quiet to see how things would turn out, but for me, I always ask God to help me in whatever I do in life because, as a human being, I always try not to do anything wrong or betray the people’s trust. 

“I always say that whenever the former governors of Kaduna State and other leaders decide to take an oath swearing with the Quran that they never took people’s money, I’m also ready to swear.

“This is because I know that I didn’t go into public service to steal or take people’s money. I joined politics only to serve the people of Kaduna State; I didn’t come to look for money, because I give glory to God that I’m content with what I had even before becoming governor.

“Yet, we were accused of misappropriation of funds during our tenure without being given a specific area where the money went missing or who took it. 

“Yet they are going after my allies by inviting them to the ICPC and EFCC with the intention of tarnishing their names. As for me, I had already prayed two Raka’at on Friday night, leaving everything to God, seeking His judgment. This is why I’m not saying much about the issue.”