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Marriage tests your character, makes you happy and matured

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31 May 2022
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On learning to let go before it’s too late

Aisha Musa Auyo

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By Aisha Musa Auyo

Allah created marriage for lifelong pleasure and happiness. Therefore, beyond any other human relationship, marriage has the potential to make us happier. But there is a price to this happiness, which is CHARACTER. 

Marriage tests our character in every way. It tests our patience, work ethic, willingness to forgive, sensitivity to others, tolerance for those different from us, cooperation ability, endurance, and humility. Marriage is simply the biggest character test in life.

These tests integrate into our demeanour and give us a certain level of understanding, patience and maturity, and willingness to forgive. Moreover, it opens our eyes to the reality of life that unconditional love is exclusively for parents and children.

One needs to work more on his character, temperament, and personality to be able to live peacefully with others. Emotional intelligence plays a greater role in the relationship than anything else.

For most new couples, marriage was like a trip to the proverbial woodshed for the first several years. They were selfish, insensitive, angry and chauvinistic. After the first few years, many spouses were convinced that they had made a mistake in marrying their mate and that they were the cause of their misery.

But after lots of patience and endurance, when they look back at those times, they will realise that all the negatives that happened are crucial in forming their character. Many couples admit that they almost didn’t make it. They almost give up, but such circumstances forced them to decide to change and become more like Allah wants them to be… (patient, prayerful, selfless, understanding, and forgiving).

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As a partner, know that your marriage will take a significant step forward every time you make a positive character change. Your spouse also will make positive character choices that will benefit your relationship, and you will have a great marriage, inshaAllah. It won’t be perfect, but you will be happier, contented, and at peace than ever before and will be glad to be committed to the lifelong journey.

Know that before marriage makes you happy, it will make you grow.

Aisha Musa Auyo is a Doctorate researcher in Educational Psychology. A mother of three, Aisha is a homemaker, caterer and parenting/relationship coach.

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  1. Bint Ibraheem says:
    8 months ago

    Ma shaa Allah… That’s indeed a food for thought! Every line portraits the reality in almost all marriages. Barakaatuh feel sis.

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    • Aisha Musa Auyo says:
      1 month ago

      Thank you bro, wa antum bikhaer.

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  2. Magaji Sani Ɗandishe says:
    1 month ago

    Ma sha Allah.

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  3. Ibrahim wisdom says:
    1 month ago

    Well captivated article… Ma’am… How delicate and flowing this narration is! your words’ colours exudes a certain sense of bliss in civile union….   indeed, Islam does not regard marriage as a union only for the gratification of sexual lost, sex is both a spiritual and emotional exchange, but a social contract with wide and varied responsibilities and duties.The reason behind it is that, according to the Divine Faith, a woman is not a plaything in the hand of man. but a spiritual and moral being who is entrusted to him on the sacred pledge to which Allah is made a witness. The wife is, therefore, not meant. to provide sensuous pleasure only to the male, but to fully co-operate with him in making the life of the family and ultimately of the whole humanity significantly meaningful. But some still believe marriage is not an achievement!!…..

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