‘Kill Him!’ — IGP Disu Recalls Father’s Reaction After Son’s Arrest For Cultism

By Sabiu Abdullahi

Inspector-General of Police, Tunji Disu, has recounted the unusual reaction of a retired soldier whose university-student son was arrested for cultism in Ogun State.

Disu said the retired soldier initially demanded that the police kill his son after his arrest, but returned to the police station the next morning with food for the detainee.

The IGP shared the experience on Thursday at the National Youth Leadership and Security Dialogue organised by the Nigeria Police Force at the Police Resource Centre in Jabi, Abuja.

The three-day event, which ended on Saturday, was held as part of activities to mark International Youth Day 2026. It focused on youth leadership, security, responsibility and the need to discourage violence and thuggery.

Disu said the incident happened when he was serving as a Divisional Police Officer in Ago Iwoye, Ogun State.

According to him, the retired soldier went to his office after learning that his son, a university student, had been arrested for cultism. The man asked about his son and, after learning that he was in detention, demanded that the police kill him.

“And he said, DPO, where is the boy? I said, he’s detained. He said, very good. I want you to help me to kill him.

“Kill him! That was what he said. That you must kill him. He doesn’t want him at home,” he said,

The retired soldier reportedly remained at the police station from morning until almost night, insisting that his son should be killed.

Disu said he eventually persuaded the man to go home and assured him that the police would handle the matter.

However, the father returned early the following morning with food for his son.

“And he left. The following morning, very early in the morning, he started calling me. He has brought food for his son. He brought food for his son,” Disu said.

The IGP said he intentionally waited until the afternoon before meeting the man, despite repeated calls from him.

When the retired soldier eventually entered his office, he explained that he had come to give food to his detained son.

Disu said the development made him reflect on what could have happened if the police had acted on the man’s earlier demand.

“What if I’ve killed this boy since yesterday? That is a parent for you.”

The IGP said the experience demonstrated the complex emotions that parents can experience when dealing with the misconduct of their children.

He also stressed the importance of parental responsibility in the upbringing and discipline of young people.

Disu had previously shared the same experience in a March 2025 reflection titled The First Lawmakers: My Reflection on Home, Discipline, and Duty, when he was Commissioner of Police in the Federal Capital Territory.

According to the IGP, the young man later completed his education, got married and became a father himself.