By Sabiu Abdullahi
A Nigerian academic and writer, Dr. Aisha Musa Auyo, has announced the release of her new book titled Between Hearts and Homes. The book is a collection of articles drawn from her personal experiences, observations, and long-standing interest in human relationships.
In a post shared on her Facebook profile, seen by the Daily Reality on Wednesday, Auyo stated that the book reflects her journey as an aspiring relationship expert and coach, with a strong focus on relationships between couples. She noted that her background played a major role in shaping her love for books and reflection.
Auyo recalled growing up in a home headed by librarian parents, where reading became a constant companion. She said her education spanned both secular and Islamic schools, and she devoted much of her free time to books. That lifestyle, she explained, affected her social interactions during childhood.
According to her, frequent bullying and repeated disappointments made her question her role in those experiences. That period later pushed her towards social psychology, as she sought to better understand herself and how people relate with one another.
Her studies and observations, she said, revealed the strong influence of family structures on individual behaviour. As divorce cases and unhappy marriages increased within her community, she developed a stronger desire to promote healthy relationships, especially among couples. She described happy families as the backbone of a stable society and a prosperous nation.
The author stated that the book draws lessons from her interactions with parents, siblings, husband, in-laws, friends, teachers, and students. She said she carefully reflects on these relationships, learns from them, and passes the lessons to her readers so they can gain insight without going through similar difficulties. Responses and discussions from readers, she added, have continued to deepen her understanding of relationship matters.
Auyo also revealed her experience in offering free marital and parenting coaching, which exposed her to the realities many families face. She said this experience expanded her understanding of the challenges linked to marriage and interpersonal relationships.
Through Between Hearts and Homes, the author said she aims to present a realistic picture of marital and other relationships, while encouraging more understanding and compassion in interactions between spouses and within society.
She added that her broader objective is to address common relationship issues and support the well-being of individuals and the community at large.
The book is available in paperback in Nigeria, while readers across the world can access it on Amazon in both paperback and Kindle formats.